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“Man’s Best Friend”

“Man’s Best Friend”

The price of love, what is it worth? The fates of three people are put to the test by this very question in this romantic thriller by

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Gumbomonster’s newest film “Man’s Best Friend” coming soon…

ThePot Session 1: Episode 2

What up #gumbomonsters. Hopefully you guys are hungry, serving up Episode 2: She Got  5ive on It.

Today’s Recipe: After getting stoned and sidetracked by Malcolm and 2pac our  heroes “5ive” and “Bats”are finally back on topic. How did 5ive lose his girl?…Somehow it has something to do with a quasar, Mos Def, orgasms, Saul Williams, temper tantrums, the universe and weed getting thrown into The Pot…

Press play and enjoy!

ThePot Session 1: Episode 1

what up #gumbomonsters! This is the first episode of our new webshow #ThePot!

Episode 1: “M.O.B” (Malcolm Over Bitches)

Hit the play and let it unfold.

Much Ado About R’ships: Part 3 of 3: The Cheating Man’s Mind & True Commitment

Last part of my trip through the male’s mental on relationships, Part III will look at how cheating men think as well as the core of what true commitment is, or at least should be…ride with me….

Oh and if you haven’t checked out Part I (Men & Women Crosswired) and Part II (The Single Man’s Mind) click em and peep em out….comment if you dare ;-).



The No.1 reason: Men crave sexual “variety,” according to David Buss, professor of psychology at the University of Texas and author of The Evolution of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating (BasicBooks).

“They’ve evolved the desire to be with different women,” he says.  That’s because it’s very simple for men to reproduce (one act of sex versus nine months of pregnancy for women), so to create as many offspring as possible they’re biologically programmed to mate with many women.

“The ‘payoff’ in reproductive currencies [kids] of a short-term mating strategy generally has been higher for men than women,” Buss says. So after thousands of generations, “this has forged in the male brain a desire for sexual variety.”

First off, I’ve never cheated…but I do understand it. One of the main reasons why I tried to practice honesty while ‘juggling’ and why I didn’t commit to any one girl was because I didn’t want to end up having to lie and cheat in a relationship that I wasn’t ready for.   But, in a way, when you’re juggling, if you keep the same “team” for a period of time, unofficially you fall into the slot that “boyfriend” is suppose to fill, so in essence there was a time where I had like 3 unofficial girlfriends (that all knew of each other) and in that same essence I was cheating on all 3 of them (because unofficial or not, if the feelings and actions are there…titles mean squat),  or really I was able to acquire the mindset of what your average guy that’s actually out here lying and cheating on his official girl would have.

As touched on in Part II, it damn hard for many and impossible for most average woman to fully comprehend the notion of a man having sex for pleasure only, no feelings included. Many think that men are greedy dog ass sluts for possessing this ability… some cases they are totally right…

*******FOR THE RECORD*******

FACT (That Cheating Men Never Ignore): Even with a boyfriend/girlfriend title you are still LEGALLY SINGLE.

If you’re not married, it’s not considered real cheating to a lot of these guys. If you ARE married, they tend to blame issues in the relationship itself, will get more into that later.


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